New Year Resolution 

The resolution doesn't need any specific day or time but it can be taken now. To make your resolution special, let's start with this exciting new year. So, I present you a list of acts whichever you want can make your new year resolution. Let's have a look.  

• Read books daily. 
• Do one self-improvement act daily. 
• Learn from your mistakes.
• Keep yourself updated. 
• Be positive.
• Have the intention to learn new things.
• Always try to think out of the box.
• Do meditation.
• Always take care of your words.
• Be Healthy.
• Be helpful to the needy.
• Do believe in yourself. 
• Don't care about what others think. 
• Love yourself. 

5 Steps to gain self-confidence. 

 Self Confidence 

A way to represent yourself, the more nicely you represent yourself, the more you have self-confidence. 

The most essential thing to move on is called self-Confidence. 

About me, I realised, I have a lack of self-confidence and I am just wondering to gain it, what I have here wants to share with you. 

5 Steps to gain self-confidence. 

Small Piece of Big Task 

The very first step is to break your aim into small pieces, pick one of them and move on with it. Then, done with the second one. This simple step makes you to done your aim, the bigger seems harder, with smaller can reach bigger one very easily. By doing each of them, slowly and gradually You can feel confident to just do it. This is what we were wondering. 

Learn to say NO   

It does have a meaning, I am telling you. The art to say no sometimes works very nicely, but saying no is not an easy task, I know. For me at least, many times I do realise, I must refuse to go ahead but why saying no is that much difficult, I do not know. But, One should learn this art as it is very necessary. It does things mess up for sometimes but later you can feel the magic of this word because just going without your heart or willpower never give a good result na. So, why not just move on with another one where I will have a result. This small word, if you use it at the right times will really feel you with your self-confidence. 

Do Mistake 

Do mistake does not mean to mistake again and again but it says never be afraid to do mistakes as the best teacher is our mistake and time itself. With own mistake and with time, one can learn everything. Do mistakes, never think that you cant do this work, what will happen, will be got no result, no worry next time it will come with a result. The time you are giving will give you a learning experience. With doing mistakes, one must think is always there must have a correction. This correction gives self-confidence. Mistakes never define one's disability but show a willingness to try something new. Always think of your mistake as your good approach rather than failure. 

Remember Yourself   

Who doesn't have a good ability, the only thing which matter is to feel? Firstly, remember yourself, your personality. The good list of things which you are able to do better than others, I am sure You will have a number of a task list. This is the very essential thing to find out this list. It will feel you with enthusiam to do work and this is the first step of ageing self-confidence. Yes, I can do this is a magical sentence one should carry always. 

With strong will power and self motivation, one can achieve hieght of success, the only thing one must have is self-confidence. 

Do Meditation.   

Meditation is something in which you can see yourself, just playing as a mirror. Do meditation and get yourself, if you really want to define yourself, you should spend 5-10 minutes with meditation. With open eyes, one can see everything but when it closes, the only thing is there is you. See yourself and definitely, it has a lot of good effect on health too. With good health, one can make things possible. Gain self-confidence, realise what actually you are. 

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Definition of Life.

 Let's define life. It seems very simple, but no not that much how it looks like. Let's continue. 

What should be the definition of life "struggle..." seems a perfect word I think.    

Struggles for what? Here comes the interesting point and from here the definition of everyone's life differ from each other because each one has their own life and their own need. 

Let's try out the type of struggle. Struggle for  

Carrier

Health

Happiness 

Money

Peace

Carrier  

Struggle for carrier cant be defined in words actually. From childhood to adulthood, one has always a pressure to build a carrier, to get the desired job, to have a handsome salary and to continue living with own. But the struggle is same, each student has pressure to get a 90+ score, to be a first, to be the best student. Anyway, I do have not enough words to define this life because not every struggle got results here.   

Health 

Here is the second definition of life ie health. "Health is Wealth", who don't know this small phrase but not everyone has good health. When health decay, nothing will happen well. Struggle to have good health is a part of life, nowadays everyone has more or few but have a health problem. And this is the worse definition of life, without good health, everything seems useless and just foggy. No one can understand and share the pain but one has to fight with their own situation. Even money or power cant play any role to get good health.   

Happiness  

Happiness is a word that is present in everyone's vocabulary but not everyone is happy. To became a happy person is not a simple task to do but sometimes all money or everything seems much less to be happy. Happiness cant be bought or sale but one has to achieve it. Definition of Life in term of happiness is very tough although be happy is the everyday phrase. 

Tough in the sense, everyone has a different source of happiness, happiness means money for someone,  inner peace, good health, family, the height of success or you know about yourself. 

Money 

Money is another definition of life, without money life is impossible. Although, money is an essential thing for life but for someone money is life. For this, one is struggling day by day. One fact I tell you, this struggle never ends as a desire for money has no end.   

Life should be like a lotus, every night it disapperar in water as there is nothing, but every morning it appear with a eye catching beauty. Start each day of life, just became a lotus. 

Peace  

Can someone achieve it with money, name or fame, publicity, or from a height of success? The correct answer is NO.....  No one! 

A Word or a thing that has no price. No one can buy it from anywhere but have to search for it inside ourselves. and it comes from the work which you like the most. It comes from the word which you want to hear the most. It comes from the activity which you enjoy the most. 

Inner peace is a definition of life, achievement of it is not an easy job, I am searching for it too, but if you have, you know the definition of life.  

I know no one can define life in words, I am just trying to understand life because it is much difficult for me. There is no explanation, no definition and no description of life because, with each day, life changes its phase. Each day, one has a new objective for life. Just with positive energy, start each day like a lotus. 

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 Self-Healing

Self-healing is the most powerful tool I ever know and just wanted to share my own experience, may its help you. There is always a dark phase and light phase of life everyone has here. Sometimes a moment gives you an ocean of happiness and sometimes one second becomes one year. See the magic of time. 

I had also some seconds like this to spend and during that time I just ended. But I am here, how. I am also surprised but realised one tool to spend this one horrible second is Self-Healing. Self-Healing gives me the whole lesson of life. Self-Healing is the best way to move on, no medicine will work to heal you from inside but it's only you to heal yourself. 

To be continued. 

First Flight

 Once there was a time when I tried to do something new and was confused and worried about my new step ahead. Confusion is for what should be my first step in this competitive world and worried about my startup. Starting something is like a new phase which is not an easy step you know. I was worried too like an all-new comer in the industry. There was a lot of question to ask but from whom, how much you can disturb someone, a lot to do but should I or not. I remember a day when I was ready to publish a blog but all of the sudden, by mistake I clicked on a button and the whole blog was deleted.  

Ah, the first step and doing something new is not an easy step I told you. You can tell me a silly person, by one second I deleted my own blog, deleted my times as well as efforts. But yes that was my first step and one more silly thing I can share with you, after publishing my first blog, it took around half an hour to share its URL as I was wondering the exact link which I had to share, today even I am learning but yes at least frequently can share my blog's URL. Yes, I learned it with time. Are you wondering the term which I am trying to tell you by these two incidents of my own? Let me tell you, this term is the first flight.    

Taking the first step is always a tough step for everyone. No one can be perfect at the beginning but perfection comes from trying and trying and doing and doing. There may be some criticism you have to face on the road to success, maybe some frustration will surround you, you can feel uncomfortable but what should be done here is just GO AHEAD. Move on, just come on the following, and day by day the things will quite normally to you, everything seems perfect and all frustration and criticism will disappear suddenly. Don't worry you are not alone on the path, and why to worry about I am alone, sometimes moving alone is also a great step you know.   

Just remember one formula ie keep going, ignore ignorance and look at supports. 

Nothing in life can be taken for granted. Skills have to be learned in life with our own efforts. Parents can only help in teaching and encouraging us to learn things but we have to learn them through our own efforts of trial and error. Who doesn't suffer from hesitation and fears in the beginning? It takes time to take the final plunge.   

There is always the first step to go ahead and one should always start with the lowest step.   

Success is not a skill , Success is called will" - Kiran Bedi.    

Hope for the best. Thanks for stopping here.  

 Happy People

I always meet this sentence " Be Happy". And I want to be the happiest person too but don't know why I can't maintain it. These 7 words are very simple to read, listen, or to tell but the most difficult part is to apply. I wish it but it's not that much easy. But why? Another important part is this, why I or you cant apply these 7 Words in our life even it will change the total scenario of life. And as per facing difficulties, Once I decided to find the reason. And wants to know why I can't be the happiest person and Who is the happiest person.  

First I had to find the criteria of a happy person and I find some of them. Just want to share it with you so that you can also be able to apply it in your life.     

A happy person is just happy because they love themselves more than others. 

Don't Show off  

Best one and my ever favorite. Please don't show off. Just be realistic. You are awesome, never compare yourself to others. Just love yourselves. You are doing well in every situation. Why not be as you as you are. Showing nature is not a permanent idea to exist actually.   

People are always interested in the truth. They are not interested in you or your habits but want to know and listen to facts. So, remember this thing, whenever you meet with someone. Never explain yourself but talk about the facts like any recent matter, breaking news, some social issues with logic. This really works a lot.   

People will take interest in you, as you will find new attentions. Obviously, you will feel happy and glad.    

Talk Less  Be a Good Listener

Many times you can see not everyone has that much patience that they will listen to you silently and got your point. Hey, this is the most boring thing in a person. This is the symbol of education that you can listen patiently. Be an educated person, see education should be seen in your behavior.  

Be a listener, got the point of what someone wants to tell, and after that give your own opinion. Think if you don't listen properly, how do you answer or react perfectly. If you don't react properly, why people will reach you.    

Just talk less and Be a Good Listener. Actually by interacting properly with a person will give you a feeling of peace, I mean to say you will feel free that everything is ok.   

Every day, we are doing a new thing, and can do some mistakes also but what if tomorrow I will repeat the same. I am not only wasting my time but also my energy. Always learn a lesson from bitter experience.   Who is perfect here? No one. Everyone has done mistakes. But the smartness is that you just learned from your mistakes and never done it again.   

Learn daily and apply it too in your life.   

No, never hesitate to do a new task, if you do some mistakes it totally okay but not good if you repeat them, just learn new things from your mistakes. And the most interesting thing is here is you will learn this lesson very fastly. Just feel it.     

Help Others   

Be kind, Be helpful. If you feel emptiness and negativity. Start helping someone who is needy. This point is out of the box, you will say. But it is a powerful trick towards positivity because after helping someone you will fill with enthusiasm because actually, you are good for everything. Someone is happy right now because of you, this feels actually awesome and optimistic.   

Helping others is always a good act to do in any situation. Be someone for someone and feel positive. Kindness is bigger than everything.      

To be continued. 

Signs of Highly Intelligent Person

 somewhere I read a beautiful line...  

The problem is nothing but is a bundle of small problems just try to unbound them and separate them into small pieces. Such a beautiful line by an intellectual person.   

Sometimes I am just wondering, are intelligent persons are different from folks or they are in them having different thinking. Just find some sign why those are called intelligent.    

Think Different  

The problem is nothing but is a bundle of small problems just try to unbound them and separate them into small pieces.  

When we are always worried about our problems just have a look at the above sentence. An intelligent person resolves a big problem in small pieces and now busy finding solutions to small problems obviously solution will be easy and small.  

They have just different thinking towards life, toward problems, and towards solutions.        

Be Clear  

Be clear, with these two words, I want to say you should always clear on your words and decisions. 

A sign of intelligent personality is if he says one sentence, either he says one time or thousands of times, the words will be the same. This is a symbol of strongness and also people will start believing in you if you really stand by your words.   

Be clear on your words, never change decisions again and again, if you have to change there should be a reason behind it.    

First, make a decision strongly and then stand by it. Actually, it is a hack for success, and if plan things properly then why will fail. You will always go ahead, this saves your time, and you will be an authority on which people can believe. Also, if some things are out of your box, I mean to say, you cant do some task as it is out of your field, at a time refuse it. Say no with confidence as everyone is an expertise in their own field and cant do all types of work. So, also learn to say No. Be clear, Be confident.  

An intelligent person is always crystal clear and makes decisions strongly as well as quickly.       

Learn from Mistakes

Who is perfect here? No one. Everyone has done mistakes. But the smartness is that you just learned from your mistakes and never done it again. Every day, we are doing a new thing, and can do some mistakes also but what if tomorrow. I am not only wasting my time but also my energy. Always learn a lesson from bitter experiences.     

No, never hesitate to do a new task, if you do some mistakes it totally okay but not good if you repeat them, just learn new things from your mistakes. And the most interesting thing is here is you will learn this lesson very fastly. Just feel it.   

Be intelligent.    Be Smart. 

DEDICATION 

Always try to do the work which you will enjoy and can give 100% results, this work gives you satisfaction and you will be focused on your work. But this is not always necessary to have your interesting work. Just chill, try to involve in it.      

In this situation, the best solution is that never leave your work tomorrow. Just do it right now as much as possible so that you will not feel Baden about your job. Just do it with your full concentration. Try this solution, you will take interest in your work and never be distracted.  

COMPARISON  

Comparison is a mathematical term that says comparison should be done only with similar elements. But people are habituated to do comparisons in real life. And this thing is more disgusting because if you compared with someone, your mind always follows his activities and you want to do things similar way.   

An intelligent person is always a focused person. 

Habits to find happiness. 

Happiness exists inside you. It's you who can make you happy. Feel this time, just not wonder for somethings else. 

I am sure you also listen to lots of sentences like this. But why then we are feeling something missing? Actually sometimes even in-crowd, you can feel loneliness, emptiness. Why? Today just want to tell you some reasons behind this besides all the inspiring words and sentences that make us lonely. Because if our happiness is inside ourselves, we must find it.     

Expectations

Fewer expectations not only include your less expecting nature but also your satisfying nature. I mean to say here is never expect too much from something but be satisfied by what you got. Always enjoy the things you have, not feel sad about things which you don't have. Try to feel happy with the results of your work. Fewer expectations also lead you to people. 

When you have fewer expectations, you will feel good about your work. The less you expect, the less you get hurts by your friends or people. 

Just avoid unrealistic expectations. It hurts most. Expectations are within out, so control on it. This not only gives you happiness but also protects you from inside.   

Let it go

Let it go is seems a very short sentence but to follow it needs lots of courage. It only defines to accept the situation. See, you cant control each moment of life, obviously, some are pleasant and some are hurting. Here just let it go and grow in the present situation.   

Each moment carries a lesson, always try to catch them and learn from it and leave the rest. It will make you strong and also heal you. Just allow them to let go.  

To Leave  

Sometimes to leave is the best option you have. Although, You love the most and cant leave you must. If you do not learn to leave, it will hurt you and cant you stay happy from the inside. Make a strong decision to save you from the inside.    

 होली   

 बसंत ऋतु   

बसंत ऋतू सदैव सन्देश देती है कि हर दुःख के बाद सुख का आगमन होता है बिल्कुल वैसे जैसे पतझड़ के बाद बसंत ऋतू का।      

अंत सदैव ही दुखदाई होती है, जैसा भी हो जो भी हो दुःख  होता है।  परन्तु अंत अपने साथ एक सन्देश भी लाती है कुछ नई शुरुआत की। हाँ, ये सत्य है कि धीरज धरने की भी एक सीमा है तथा हम मानव मन से बहुत चंचल है परन्तु जिस प्रकृति ने हमारा मन चंचल बनाया उसी ने अपने ऋतू चक्र द्वारा यह सन्देश दिया है की किस प्रकार सही समय पर नई शुरुआत हो ही जाती है। बिल्कुल उसी प्रकार जैसे पतझड़ में सब सुना लगता है पर बसंत आते ही फिर से सब हरा भरा हो जाता है।     

प्रकृति का वर्णन शब्दो में असंभव है, जीवन की सभी समस्याओं का प्रश्न भी प्रकृति में ही है तथा उत्तर भी प्रकृति में ही। जरूरत है बस समझने की।     

बसंत ऋतू 

बसंत ऋतू में मौसम इतना सुहाना होता है, न गर्मी न सर्दी। तभी तो ऋतू राज कहा गया है उन्हें। वैसे मानव को भी अपने जीवन में बसंत ऋतू से यह बात तो जरूर सीख लेनी चाहिए, न ज्यादा गर्म न ज्यादा ठंडा।  कहने का तात्पर्य है न ही ज्यादा गुस्सा न ही ज्यादा भावुकता। जीवन बहुत ही शांत और सुन्दर हो जाएगी बिल्कुल बसंत जैसी।        

सुन्दर सुन्दर रंग बिरंगे फूल, फल के बीज तथा हरी हरी नए पत्ते की खुशबू तथा सुबह सुबह चिड़ियों की चहक बसंत मौसम को बहुत ही पवन तथा मनोरम बनती है। अगर संभव होता तो हम बसंत को कभी ख़त्म होने ही नहीं देते परन्तु ऐसा हो नहीं सकता क्यूँकि प्रकृति की यही नियम है।   

आगमन होगा तो प्रस्थान तो होगा ही।   

बसंत ऋतू जब तक रहती है, हमें आनंद ही देती है। होली का उत्साह भी इस मौसम को और बसंत की खूबसूरती जीवन को सुन्दर बना देती है।    

बसंत ऋतू की तरह ही आप सब का जीवन सदैव सुन्दर तथा सुगन्धित बना रहे। हार्दिक शुभकामनायें। 

 महाशिवरात्रि पूजा 

महाशिवरात्रि की पूजा महादेव शिव को समर्पित है। महाशिवरात्रि हर वर्ष फाल्गुन कृष्ण पक्ष चतुर्थी को मनाया जाता है। मान्यता है कि महाशिवरात्रि के दिन ही माता पार्वती तथा शिव जी का विवाह हुआ था। एक और मान्यता के अनुसार इस दिन भगवन शिव नीलकंठ के नाम से प्रशिद्ध हुए थे।   

शिव ईश्वर का रूप है जिसे आदिदेव कहा जाता है, जिसका कोई अंत नहीं है। त्रिदेव ब्रह्मा, विष्णु तथा महेश हैं, जिसमे महेश शिव जी को कहा गया है। यूँ तो ब्रह्मा को सृजन का देवता, विष्णु को संचार का तथा महेश को संहार का देवता बताया गया है परन्तु भगवान शिव की पूजा अर्चना बहुत ही सरल तथा फल दाई है।   

भगवान शिव को यु तो प्रलय का देवता कहा जाता है परन्तु उन्हें दयालु की भी संज्ञा दी गयी है। कहा जाता है कि भगवान शिव इतने भोले है कि उन्हें बस जल अर्पित करके भी खुश किया जा सकता है। इसलिए उन्हें हम भोलेनाथ भी कहते है।   

शिव पुराण में वर्णित है, शिव जी के निराकार रूप का प्रतीक शिवलिंग इसी तिथि की निशा में प्रकट हो कर सर्वप्रथम ब्रह्मा तथा विष्णु द्वारा पूजी गयी थी। इस कारण यह निशा महाशिवरात्रि के नाम से प्रशिद्ध हुई। यह दिन माता पार्वती तथा भगवान शिव के विवाह की तिथि के रूप में भी पूजा जाता है।   

महाशिवरात्रि के पवन तिथि पे शिव शिव शंकर की पूजा जरूर करें। पूजा  सदैव ही आंतरिक शांति प्रदान करती है कारण बस इतना है की हमे पूर्ण विश्वास होता है ईश्वर पे।   

भगवान शिव की पूजा की बस काफी नहीं है जरुरत है उनके जीवन से सीख लेने के विशेष आज के समय जहाँ आंतरिक शांति जैसे बातें बहुत कम रह गयी है। लोग परेशान है।  क्यूँ न आज इस पावन दिन में हम कुछ अलग खोजें भगवान शिव की भक्ति में।   

हमें शिव के व्यक्तित्व से यह सीख मिलती है की किस तरह समाज के रस्मों रिवाज के साथ साथ अपने घर परिवार को भी चलाया जाये तथा आंतरिक शांति भी प्राप्त हो। जितना रहे उतना में ही खुश रहे, ज्यादा तो ज्यादा, कम तो कम। जिस प्रकार शिव जी मात्र जल से भी खुश हो जाते है। वो किसी व्यक्ति विशेष के देवता नहीं है बल्कि उन्हें सभी प्यारे है। इसी प्रकार हमें सब के साथ समान व्यवहार करना चाहिए।  उच्च-नीच, आमिर-गरीब खूबसूरत-कुरूप तथा न जाने कितने पैमाने पे ये समाज बँटी हुई है।  आज जरूरत है उन सोच को ख़त्म करने की , तभी होगा एक स्वच्छ तथा विकसित समाज का निर्माण और होगी शिव जी की पूजा सार्थक। 

महाशिवरात्रि की पूजा पुरे देश में बड़े हर्ष उल्लास से मनाई जाती है। आप भी शामिल हो तथा इस अवसर का आनंद ले। आप सब पे भगवान शिव की कृपा बनी रहें।  

हार्दिक शुभकामनाएं। 

 Loneliness and its causes

Why nowadays, people feel lonely. Do you ever think about it? Is not this is very strange. If you have some time to think about it and I will find I am right. Today, most people are alone even in-crowd. They are lonely in their mind. Today, let's find the reasons behind this.   

See, depression and loneliness are two different things. Loneliness is a state of mind and depression is a mental health issue. But they are somewhat similar to each other.    

Loneliness is a state of mind where people feels alone and you can say they are solitary that wants to stay away from crowd or noise. They are not introverts but they don't want to say on any topic or don't want to participate in any gossip. The matter is here that why?

I think many factors are here like competition in the academy and in the carrier, depression, busy lifestyle, unsuccess, and many more. Let us talk about it one by one.    

COMPETITION  

Competition sounds like a tight schedule but don't you feel this word is everywhere now? In academic, In carrier, in life, just competition is everywhere. 

Sometimes, this competition plays a big role in a student or professional's life. By losing a success for 1 or 2 marks, someone can be depressed or can feel that much sadness which slowly becomes loneliness. Should boost our mind. Competition is not important than our life, our happiness. Be happy and stay healthy is important than anything, success can achieve again.  A shining flower has its own existence.   

EXPECTATION

 सरस्वती पूजा 

बसन्त पंचमी का आगमन है। माहौल में मानो एक उत्साह सी छा गई है। लोग माता सरस्वती की पूजा आराधना की तैयारी में लगे है, जिसमे बच्चों काफी उत्साहित है। चूँकि विद्या की देवी माँ शारदे की पूजा है तो विद्यार्थी में उत्साह छाई है। यद्यपि बच्चे ज्यादा उत्सुक है तथापि सीखने की उम्र खत्म कहाँ होती है।  आये हम भी शामिल हो माता शारदे की आराधना में।      

हिन्दू धर्म के अनुसार बसंत पंचमी के दिन माता सरस्वती का जन्म हुआ था। माता सरस्वती के चार हाथ है, एक हाथ में वीणा, दूसरे हाथ में पुस्तक, तीसरे हाथ में माला तथा चौथा हाथ वर मुद्रा में है।   

मंत्र 

ॐ ऐह महसरस्वत्यै नमः।   

 

 9 Habits of Focused Person

What should be the habits for the focused person or a highly focused person? What do you ever think? 

Actually, I need some hacks because of my bad concentration nature. I can't focus on one particular matter for few minutes even. 

Within one minute, there are thousands of thoughts wandering in my mind. Some are pleasant and some are unpleasant but the thing is here that I can't concentrate my mind. So, wants to follow those hacks and also wants to share them with you so that if you need them, you can follow them.   

Pleasure moment makes us enthusiasm and unpleasant moment break us but ultimate which matters is, we should Live in the present situation. Just be focused. Many times people suggest you, just focused on your goal. But in actuality can it that much easy as saying. No, To become a focused person we have to adopt some habits which will enhance our concentration level. Now time to find out what are the habits. 

Enthusiastic  

Enthusiastic nature always gives a positive vibe. It not only gives us happiness but also some hope. See, for focusing on a particular topic, you should have peace in your mind. Just empty your mind for hope. Be positive, be strong. Never think on one topic again and again, either positive or negative so that this moment captures your concentration.   

Be strong, Be enthusiastic, keep going. 

Selection    

This is a way to focus on your topic. 

To have a successful result, first learn to reject. After the rejection, start doing your own work. 

Like this, a focused person should not react to everything, they know rejection. See, people tell many things which can divert your mind but why this is necessary to consider every matter. 

React only, if there is something necessary otherwise just see and forgot, hear and ignore. 

Let them talk. It's ok. Do your own job, just adapt the nature of concentration. Day by day, you will feel you are focused on your goal. Just learn to reject and select. 

Introvert

Introverts mean people who speak less. Sometimes you should be. If you talk more and more, the chance of conversation will increase, conversation leads to discussion. The more you involved in the discussion, the more you will be distributed. So, sometimes just listen and ignore. 

An intelligent person always speaks less and listen more so that they will learn from others. Just adapt to this nature. This will help you to be focused on your goal.    

Meditation  

Nowadays, who don't know about meditation. Here my point is, 30 minutes of meditation is not necessary if you could not control your mind. Do meditation for lesser time, it's ok, but with your full concentration. Leave every thought and the mind in which thousands of thoughts are coming and going can't do meditation.   

Feel free from everything, slowly increase the time of meditation. This is very helpful to have a focused nature. 

Environment

The environment has a big role in focusing on a particular topic. Some people can be ok with noise and some people can't. So, realize your nature. If you need a peaceful place, then arrange your living area accordingly.  

Gossip 

As we all are social animals and gossip is our favorite pass time. Usually, they need a topic, either useful or useless. And they start the useless discussion. Some will have positive points and some will have negative points. 

Just stay away from this. Always remember time is priceless, never waste it. Why you should waste your time and energy on a matter which has no Existence. 

Comparison  

Comparison is a mathematical term that says comparison should be done only with similar elements. But people are habituated to do comparisons in real life. And this thing is more disgusting because if you compared with someone, your mind always follows his activities and you want to do things similar way.   

If you have this type of habit, just leave it. You can't be focused on your goal as your mind is busy in comparison. Just happy with yourself. Never compare yourself to anyone. 

Dedication 

Always try to do the work which you will enjoy and can give 100% results, this work gives you satisfaction and you will be focused on your work. But this is not always necessary to have your interesting work. Just chill, try to involve in it.  

In this situation, the best solution is that never leave your work tomorrow. Just do it right now as much as possible so that you will not feel Baden about your job. Just do it with your full concentration. Try this solution, you will take interest in your work and never be distracted.   

Be within You  

Be within yourself, don't defines that you are the only one in your life and in this world but just ignore everyone's activities. Never interfere with someone if he or she doesn't need your suggestions or your support. Be within yourself, just do your own work and let them do.   

It will help you to stay away from useless stuff. And you can focus on your own job.    

These are some hacks to have a focused nature. To have a successful life, there are many habits which you should adopt. Success has no shortcut but one has to do very hard work. Habits cant be adopted in one day but you have to continue.